Subtract f(x+h) and f(x). This is the "difference" portion of "difference quotient".
Distribute
The 6x^2 terms subtract and cancel.
Divide both sides by 'h'. This is where the "quotient" part comes in of "difference quotient".
Factor out h from the numerator
Cancel the pair of 'h' terms from the numerator and denominator
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Side note: Later in calculus you'll learn that as h approaches 0, the expression 12x+6h will approach 12x. This is the derivative of f(x) = 6x^2. Keep in mind that h = 0 is not allowed, since division by zero is not allowed, but we can get closer and closer to it.