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Let n be that unknown number of grandchildren.
Then the number of cookies C = 4n +2, according to the first part of the condition.
At the same time,  C = 5n - 2, from the other part of the condition.
It gives you an equation
4n + 2 = 5n -2,
which gives you the solution  n = 4.
Answer.  The number of grandchildren is 4.
         The number of cookies is 18.
Solved.