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1.   ~( A = B ) 
2.   A                                         / ~B
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3.  ~( (A * B) v (~A * ~B) )                     1     Material Equivalence
4.  ~(A * B) * ~(~A * ~B)                        2     De Morgan's Law
5.  ~(A * B)                                     4     Simplification
6.  ~A v ~B                                      5     De Morgan's Law
7.  ~~A                                          2     Double Negation
8.  ~B                                           6,7   Disjunctive Syllogism