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Formally, 81-x^2 can be presented / factored as
81-x^2 = -(x+9)*(x-9).
Formally, -(x+9)*(x-9) is IDENTICALLY the same as (9+x)*(9-x).
So, formally your son's answer is correct.
But (9+x)*(9-x) is traditionally considered as "more simple" comparing with -(x+9)*(x-9).
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On these simple factoring formulas, see the lessons
1. The square of the sum formula is .
For details and examples of applications of this formula see the lesson The square of the sum formula in this site.
2. The square of the difference formula is .
For details and examples of applications of this formula see the lesson The square of the difference formula in this site.
3. The difference of squares formula is .
For details and examples of applications of this formula see the lesson The difference of squares formula in this site.